SHY GUYS

how to know if they like you?

These are tough to crack sometimes...
   He'll look at you, until you turn around, then boom, he's looking the other way.
   You may 'feel' like he's watching you - but he's hard to catch at it
   He may do something physical - like grab you in a play way, poke you, play with your hair...
(Remember when you were really young and the guy you liked punched you or tackled you?)
He may be working really hard to pay attention to you, but doesn't quite know how...

   He may ask a friend of yours about you - he'll say it's just for "friend of mine" that wants to know about you.
   He talks to everybody else - but when you're around he turns silent, or chokes up.
   You seem to accidentally bump into him a lot of different places.
   He may not say a word to you, but he shows up in the same line, at the same movie, etc.
   He'll give you a little smile from across the room, but if you get near, he won't look up.
   Basically - the BIG clue is that his behavior changes when you're around (compared to when he's around his buds or other girls).
   DEAD Giveaway - when you talk to him he turns red. 
(Bingo - you can pack that puppy up and take him home...) 

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Top Ten Tips - HOW to tell He's Flirting with YOU and/or Attracted to YOU

1. The Eyebrow Lift

When a guy first sees a girl he's attracted to, chances his eyebrows will rise and fall. Quickly. 

(You can slip the flip of an eyebrow back at him, if you're interested - it's a clear signal both ways.) 

2. Gaining Your Attention

Exaggerated movements or gestures usually mean that he's trying to stand out from the crowd. 

He may shift positions so that he is standing slightly apart from his friends or a group of people. 

3. Slight Parting of the Lips

His lips may automatically part for a second when your eyes first meet.

4. His Nostrils Open Slightly - Face Widens

As his eyebrows raise and nostrils flare slightly so with the parted lips, he has an open, friendly expression on his face.

5. He Shifts to the Classic Male Courship Stance

The macho stance (cowboy style) - he'll probably lock his thumbs in his belt or belt loops, point his fingers downwards, spread his legs about shoulder distance apart and tilt his head to one side. 

6. Touches His Own Face

He may rub his chin, brush his cheek with the back of his fingers or touch his ears.

(He may not realize this is a combination of nerves and unconscious preening behavior.) 

7. Strokes His Shirt Front, Smoothes his Jeans

More unconscious preening - smoothing a shirt sleeve, tie, shirt pocket.

(The equivalent of the female lip lick.)

8. Fiddles with His Hair

He may smooth or tussle his hair involuntarily and more often than you might realize - again preening for you...

9. Eyebrows Arc While Talking

He may, accidentally, exhibit a slightly surprised expression with slightly raised eyebrows - which means he is interested in you. 

(Forget the guy who looks at you with a smooth, relaxed brow and eyes - he thinks you're boring. You probably think he's boring so drop your eyebrows and more on.) 

10. Sock Adjustment

If a guy pulls up or adjusts his socks in your presence, it's an almost 100 per cent sign he's interested and trying to look his best. The big preening signal...

 

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